The online community for Asian men
The only space on the web dedicated to critically examining the Asian male experience.
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99% of men fail because they never start
Get no-BS life and relationship advice from successful Asian peers —engineers, doctors, and entrepreneurs— and start building a life full of real connections.
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Having trouble finding love?
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Feeling stuck in life?
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Starting over professionally?
Your digital third space to change your story
- Organized workshops led by professionals or experienced members, covering everything from group therapy, fitness journeys, communication skills to investment strategies, tailored for the Asian experience.
- Regular guest experts on topics like dating, mental health, career development, and financial planning to conduct live AMA sessions where members can ask questions directly.
- Always online, 24/7 for when you need it
- Anonymous by default enables posting for sensitive topics, particularly around relationships or personal issues, so members feel safe to share without judgment or fear.
What our members say
“I can only imagine the countless asian men who will benefit from a tribe like this”
Z3RO
AM Member
“Definitely wish this was around when I was younger and soul searching”
Iceberg
Cybersecurity Engineer
“I'm grateful for this community”
Duy Nguyen
From the DMV Area
“I wish I had this place when I was 17 and listen to these Changs, it will change your life for the better”
Chang Can Graduate
Texan AM
“Thank you everyone. I am grateful for the community here and for the ability to share things to help myself and everyone else”
Dinosaur
Medical Student
“Grateful for all the valid af mentors on this server, too many to name specifically”
Runo
NYC based AM
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
- We created this community to uplift each other as asian men and share our stories and experiences. We promote maturing by healing past emotional traumas, encouraging physically demanding work, and inspiring business + career excellence.
Yes! The goal is to make this community as inclusive as possible.
- No. This community is for asian men only. We decided to keep it this way to create an intentional space for asian men to share their experiences and support each other. We ask that joining members respect this space.
- Our members come from all walks of life, sharing the common experience of being Asian men. From college students in their late teens to family men in their fifties, this diverse group includes software engineers, doctors, entrepreneurs, and more, each bringing valuable insights on relationships, career growth, and personal development. The average member is in his thirties, contributing a wealth of experience and a commitment to mutual growth.
- 'Anonymous by default' means that everyone in this space starts off with complete privacy of personally identifiable information, allowing you to interact without revealing personal details unless you choose to. This rule fosters open and honest conversations by removing the social pressures or judgments that often come with face-to-face discussions. If someone wants to use their real name or identity, they're welcome to share it, but it's never expected or required.
- Discussions range widely, covering topics like relationship advice, content creation advice, personal development, career advice, finance, trading, mental health, and cultural identity. We encourage open, honest conversations that can benefit everyone, whether you’re asking questions, sharing experiences, or just listening.
- You’re welcome to participate anonymously by using a pseudonym and avoiding any identifying information. If you need advice on private topics, you can also use anonymous features in specific channels to ensure privacy.
- Support Circles are smaller, themed groups where members can discuss particular issues like relationships, career challenges, or personal development. These spaces provide focused support and a closer-knit atmosphere for more sensitive topics.
- Any recommendation is not committable as therapy, medical, legal or financial advice; due diligence should be done or professional help should be sought. However, many of our members are experienced in diverse fields, including tech, finance, healthcare, and entrepreneurship. Whether you’re looking for advice on career progression, investment strategies, or mental health insights, this community is a great resource.
- Yes! We host regular live sessions, including “Ask a Mentor” days, expert AMAs, workshops, and peer-led discussions on a variety of topics. These events allow for real-time engagement, where you can ask questions directly or listen to others’ experiences.
- To get the most out of this space, engage actively, ask questions, share your experiences, and give advice when you can. Building connections here requires genuine engagement, and supporting others is a great way to build trust and make meaningful connections.
- Simply follow the invite link, create an account, and introduce yourself in the designated channel (anonymously, if you prefer). Take a look at the various channels and join discussions that interest you. We’re glad to have you here!
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